FOR MEN GOING THROUGH SEPARATION AND DIVORCE

From First Night to Final Order

The Divorce Strength system for men who want to stay close to their kids,
decide with a clear head, and come out with no regrets.

Divorce forces you to make high-stakes decisions when you're stressed and under pressure, and bad decisions can cost you time with your kids and money.

START THE COURSE

On the outside, you're holding it together.

Work. The kids. The bills. And now a legal process you never asked for, running alongside everything else.

Maybe it landed this week. Maybe it's been dragging on for a year. Either way, you're carrying a lot, and the decisions you make now will stay with you for a long time.

SOUND FAMILIAR?

"I'm scared of becoming a weekend dad."
"Should I move out?"
"Form E has landed. Where do I start?"
"I nearly sent something I'd regret."
"My mates don't get it."

If any of that is you, you're not weak and you're not losing it. Your brain is doing exactly what it's built to do under threat. It just makes clear thinking very hard, at the exact moment you need it most.

Andrew Heath founder of Divorce Strength

I've been there.

Christmas Eve, 2023. 6pm. Her solicitors sent an offer so far from fair that I sat there alone and wondered if she was trying to bury me. I wanted to call her and say exactly that.

I didn't. I sat with it all Christmas, and on Boxing Day I sent one calm message. It took two days to write, and it was the right one.

Thirty months later I got a fair deal. My son asked to spend half his time with me. And I have no regrets about how I conducted myself.

I'm not a lawyer and I'm not a therapist. I'm a man who went through it and built the map I wish I'd had at the start. That map is this course.

Andy

1. Steady yourself

The Foundation lessons show you what's happening to you, and give you tools you can use the same day.

2. Help for every moment

Form E, an offer, mediation, an allegation. Each has its own module. You don't work through them in order.

3. Never alone

A welcome call within two weeks, a monthly group call, and a community of men who get it.

Built for the moment it lands

You don't work through it in order. Open the module for whatever's just happened.

You're about to send something you'll regret

Before you hit sendA 60-second reset and the Respond Protocol

You can't switch off at night

When your head won't switch off at nightThree questions before sleep

You've no idea what's coming next

The Divorce Map: where you are right nowThe legal journey and the human one, side by side

Form E has landed

When Form E landsWhat it is, and how to face it calmly

An offer has arrived

Your game plan before you walk inOutcomes, scenarios and red lines, before you reply

Mediation or FDR is coming up

Who's in the room?Know the people, and walk in with a plan

She's saying things that aren't true

When she says things that aren't trueWhy it happens, and how to stay steady

You're terrified of losing everything

"What if I lose everything?"Fear Setting and the voluntary poverty exercise

She might still be in your accounts

The VaultLock down your email, phone and money today

Plus two workbooks, and lifetime access to the Foundation Circle.

Jonny, W Sussex

"It's something I wish I'd had earlier. Having the structure, direction and a strategy is incredibly useful and it all makes so much sense."

Alex M, E Sussex

“It’s a tremendous piece of work – really well structured and nicely broken down into manageable, bite-sized pieces to ensure it doesn’t become too overwhelming. I feel in a relatively good place for the first time in 5 months.”

It sits alongside your solicitor

Divorce Strength isn't legal advice, and it doesn't replace your lawyer. It helps with the part a legal retainer was never built to cover: how you're holding up, and how you make decisions under pressure.

For context, one hour with most family solicitors costs £150 to £350. This costs £147, once.

The No Regrets Guarantee

Use it for 60 days. If it isn't helping, send me one line saying so and I'll refund every penny. No forms, no questions. Keep the Vault and the workbooks either way.

I'd rather you had the support than lay awake wondering if you wasted the money.